In this weekly workshop series, this weeks main topics is blogging. As I already blog (however infrequently), this does feel a big pedantic, but I willingly oblige. The assignment here is to come up with an idea that is maybe controversial or stimulating and write about it. Last night in my graduate class, I think I came across a great starting point.
I often read another teacher's blog, Mr. Lee (his blog is linked on the right side of the page) and his most recent entry and poll I have found quite interesting. In fact, it has been circulating through my mind periodically. This is the concept of accountability. Who is accountable or responsible for the performance of our students?
In my second graduate class of the evening, we were discussing precisely this topic. It seemed that everyone was trying to give responsibility (or place blame, depending on how you spin it) to some figure or person in a students life. Mostly those figures included administrators, parents, teachers, politicians or students themselves. During discussion, one gentleman shucked everyone of responsibility, except for the teachers. I found this to be entirely irresponsible and quite frankly, irritating. He specifically said that students' parents are not responsible for their students academic well being because they lack to skills to be responsible.
That was the most irritating part. While parents may lack the skills to help their children with homework or even simpler tasks like acquiring notebooks or pencils, this does not relieve them of responsibilities. Lack of skill is not an acceptable excuse. I openly acknowledged that this may be a hard-nosed approach, but I think it's a hard line that needs to be drawn.
Kids learn by example. The first and foremost example from whom they may learn are their parents or guardians. So while parents may not have the skills to help their children, they should be required to figure out ways to be responsible. Some might say that jobs or familial obligations prohibit parents from participating in their child's education. Again, no excuse. This just means that a parent's priorities are not in an appropriate order.
Teachers, schools, educators, administrators, politicians and students constantly have accountability shoved down their throats, while parents are allowed to sit back and let the systems raise their child. It is disgusting and socially irresponsible. Parents should be held to the same (if not more) accountability as other figures in a students life. They had a child and they should take the appropriate responsibility to ensure that child receives a quality education.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
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I agree that although parents may not have the education or ability to help students with their academics they can instill habits such as consistent attendance and punctuality, responsibility for assignment. Parents who are not academically inclined can sign their children up for tutoring. Unfortunately the students who need the most often have parents who do the least, maybe that is the best they can do or maybe their priorities are all wrong. In the end the children and parents live with the consequences of the neglect or inaction. That being a said being a parent is hard work. Society really does not support the family. For example I ask for time off so I could attend my son's school conferences. Although my request was eventually granted it was done so grudgingly. Even when I was on maternity leave I felt unsupported. And also I think of the many foster children in this school system who do they have to advocate and fight for their future.
ReplyDeleteI'm starting to feel that dealing with parents is just as frustrating, if not moreso, than dealing with some of the students. I agree that parents are ultimately responsible for their child's success and there are very few situations that could possibly excuse a parent from their responsibility to their offspring.
ReplyDeleteSome of the parents I have dealt with seem to think that they and their children are entitled to anything and everything all while having to do very little to earn it. I know this may not be the case, but I am really starting to get that feeling. How can we expect our students to succeed and perform well in our classes while their parents are often teaching them by very poor example?